My husband always persuades me that I have such, such short point and he has such, such good virtues. And he just let me believe he is the perfect man for me, yet I am not the perfect woman for him. For once this made me depressed and even I lost my confidence in my job and my life. But I got through all the tough time then finally I found I grew up and become very strong. I gained my confidence again and made a better life. I guess my husband is the one that which does not kill you makes you stronger. But I still wonder if I need appreciate him or not.

Sometimes we are care too much of what others see us or remark us. We need set confidence in ourselves no matter what others say, though it seems a little arrogant. I guess people who watched “ A big fat Greek wedding” have a good sight of it. For our close friends and family, if you really want to help somebody, do not blow the cold wind, but give away your warm light like the sun.