Just A Proposal..
-bystander(bystander);
2006-3-1{400}(#2813907@0)
If some one (preferal couple with kid) can live with the family for a period time, it will help the grandparents and the kids.
Just imaging that grantparents face each other at home all the time, then face the grand-childrend, it could be very depressing, devastating. Some one from outside could really soften the atmosphere, distract the attention...
I know it is not easy to make this happen..
the stronger they apprea to be, the lonelier and sadder they are
-bystander(bystander);
2006-3-1{415}(#2814169@0)
I know some one went through similar devastating, depressing and lonely situation. Although he is a very very strong person, but he was not able to totally get out of the situation and depression mood until some one got involved in his life. That was the moment he felt he was able to break the shell and the cycle.
Anyway, I know it is close to mission impossible to make this happen..
I will pray for them..
I have a dream....We are parents of a 5 y.o. girl, mature enough (or close to) with stable, double income. The number of family members (3) won't increase unless we bear, or more likely adopt, another child.
-hsl(胡司乱令);
2006-3-2{334}(#2814490@0)
If Yu-Ren's children and the grandparents like each of us (our girl, me, my wife), we'd be glad to be godparents of the two children. And I'm almost certain my daughter will become the best friend with them.
Ok, even if my dream won't come true, I still think my family should get close together with them from time to time...
I couldn't help crying when I was reading Grandparents' letter posted on 51.ca
-lilichen(jenny);
2006-3-3{212}(#2816465@0)
Sorry, I don't have Chinese Software installed in my computer, I can only input in English. I have two small kids. When I was reading the Grandparent's letter, my tears was down. It is too tough for the family!
mind to give me a link?
-maple_sea(BeiBei);
2006-3-3(#2816573@0)