本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Believe it or not, I had some very difficult time too. The first month when I came back to work, my little one still got up 4-5 times at night. I had to hold him to keep him asleep almost whole night. Every morning, my husband was so worried when I drove to work. I still remember one night, when I put him down, he cried so hard, even in my arms. Finally I thought since no way I can let him happy, so I put him down in his crib and left his room. He cried for about 15 minutes and fell in sleep. That night, he woke up twice and cried for about 5 - 10 minutes each time, no body entered his room so he fell back to sleep again. Since then every night he only woke up once and every thing was on track.
For the bed time, my experience is routine is very very importance. (actually routine will make both your and baby's life much more enjoyable). We always do almost exactly same thing at almost exactly same time before bed: have a dinner, have a walk, play together, have a bath and feeding. This way, baby knows what to expect next and you won't fight with him.
For me, there is no right or wrong answer to the way you being a parent. Set up a routine for your baby, and stick to it, your baby eventually will figure it out. Once both you and your baby happy, you are a great parent.
Only drawback of baby routine is, as parents, we have to give up many our schedule/or activity in order to protect baby's routine.
Also in order to raise a happy baby, the support (moral and daily activity) is essential.
This is only my experience. May not apply to you. Just for your reference.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
For the bed time, my experience is routine is very very importance. (actually routine will make both your and baby's life much more enjoyable). We always do almost exactly same thing at almost exactly same time before bed: have a dinner, have a walk, play together, have a bath and feeding. This way, baby knows what to expect next and you won't fight with him.
For me, there is no right or wrong answer to the way you being a parent. Set up a routine for your baby, and stick to it, your baby eventually will figure it out. Once both you and your baby happy, you are a great parent.
Only drawback of baby routine is, as parents, we have to give up many our schedule/or activity in order to protect baby's routine.
Also in order to raise a happy baby, the support (moral and daily activity) is essential.
This is only my experience. May not apply to you. Just for your reference.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
