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周末还下大雨,今晚中年男女只能在家待着了, 下午先培养一下性趣嘛, 人道一点好不好, 性对中年人的健康很重要。

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛In one of the most credible studies correlating overall health with sexual frequency, Queens University in Belfast tracked the mortality of about 1,000 middle-aged men over the course of a decade. The study was designed to compare persons of comparable circumstances, age and health. Its findings, published in 1997 in the British Medical Journal, were that men who reported the highest frequency of orgasm enjoyed a death rate half that of the laggards. Other studies (some rigorous, some less so) purport to show that having sex even a few times a week has an associative or causal relationship with the following:

- Improved sense of smell: After sex, production of the hormone prolactin surges. This in turn causes stem cells in the brain to develop new neurons in the brain's olfactory bulb, its smell center.

- Reduced risk of heart disease: In a 2001 follow-on to the Queens University study mentioned above, researchers focused on cardiovascular health. Their finding? That by having sex three or more times a week, men reduced their risk of heart attack or stroke by half. In reporting these results, the co-author of the study, Shah Ebrahim, Ph.D., displayed the well-loved British gift for understatement: "The relationship found between frequency of sexual intercourse and mortality is of considerable public interest."

- Weight loss, overall fitness: Sex, if nothing else, is exercise. A vigorous bout burns some 200 calories--about the same as running 15 minutes on a treadmill or playing a spirited game of squash. The pulse rate, in a person aroused, rises from about 70 beats per minute to 150, the same as that of an athlete putting forth maximum effort. British researchers have determined that the equivalent of six Big Macs can be worked off by having sex three times a week for a year. Muscular contractions during intercourse work the pelvis, thighs, buttocks, arms, neck and thorax. Sex also boosts production of testosterone, which leads to stronger bones and muscles. Men's Health magazine has gone so far as to call the bed the single greatest piece of exercise equipment ever invented.

- Reduced depression: Such was the implication of a 2002 study of 293 women. American psychologist Gordon Gallup reported that sexually active participants whose male partners did not use condoms were less subject to depression than those whose partners did. One theory of causality: Prostoglandin, a hormone found only in semen, may be absorbed in the female genital tract, thus modulating female hormones.

- Pain-relief: Immediately before orgasm, levels of the hormone oxytocin surge to five times their normal level. This in turn releases endorphins, which alleviate the pain of everything from headache to arthritis to even migraine. In women, sex also prompts production of estrogen, which can reduce the pain of PMS.

- Less-frequent colds and flu: Wilkes University in Pennsylvania says individuals who have sex once or twice a week show 30% higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A, which is known to boost the immune system.

- Better bladder control: Heard of Kegel exercises? You do them, whether you know it or not, every time you stem your flow of urine. The same set of muscles is worked during sex.

- Better teeth: Seminal plasma contains zinc, calcium and other minerals shown to retard tooth decay. Since this is a family Web site, we will omit discussion of the mineral delivery system. Suffice it to say that it could be a far richer, more complex and more satisfying experience than squeezing a tube of Crest--even Tartar Control Crest. Researchers have noted, parenthetically, that sexual etiquette usually demands the brushing of one's teeth before and/or after intimacy, which, by itself, would help promote better oral hygiene.

- A happier prostate? Some urologists believe they see a relationship between infrequency of ejaculation and cancer of the prostate. The causal argument goes like this: To produce seminal fluid, the prostate and the seminal vesicles take such substances from the blood as zinc, citric acid and potassium, then concentrate them up to 600 times. Any carcinogens present in the blood likewise would be concentrated. Rather than have concentrated carcinogens hanging around causing trouble, it's better to evict them. Regular old sex could do the job. But if the flushing of the prostate were your only objective, masturbation might be a better way to go, especially for the non-monogamous male. Having sex with multiple partners can, all by itself, raise a man's risk of cancer by up to 40%. That's because he runs an increased risk of contracting sexual infections. So, if you want the all the purported benefits of flushing with none of the attendant risk, go digital. A study recently published by the British Journal of Urology International asserts that men in their 20s can reduce by a third their chance of getting prostate cancer by ejaculating more than five times a week.

While possession of a robust appetite for sex--and the physical ability to gratify it--may not always be the cynosure of perfect health, a reluctance to engage can be a sign that something is seriously on the fritz, especially where the culprit is an infirm erection.

Dr. J. Francois Eid, a urologist with Weill Medical College of Cornell University and New York Presbyterian Hospital, observes that erectile dysfunction is extension of vascular system. A lethargic member may be telling you that you have diseased blood vessels elsewhere in your body. "It could be a first sign of hypertension or diabetes or increased cholesterol levels. It's a red flag that you should see your doctor." Treatment and exercise, says Dr. Eid, can have things looking up again: "Men who exercise and have a good heart and low heart rate, and who are cardio-fit, have firmer erections. There very definitely is a relationship."更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下家园 / 幸福家庭 / 性对中年妇女真的有那么重要吗?
    性对我们都很重要,但和谐的性,可遇不可求。

    中年妇女,孩子都有几个了,只是为了性而想离婚,很是不值。这里说的不值,是指离了以后,很难找到更好的。那么性这个事怎么解决?不是有成人玩具吗?比真男人厉害多了。

    在这里我要严重表扬一下自己。老婆曾经生病(现已恢复),不宜性生活,连亲嘴摸乳都免了,长达数年。但这并没有影响我们之间的感情。我没有去找小三,也没有去找小姐。那么性这个东西怎么解决?这个...,你懂的。
    • 生过病和身体健康的不能放在一起比。对你不重要的事情,对别人不一定不重要。挤牙膏从中间挤,上厕所不对准等等,都有可能触发大事件。
    • 家家男人象你这么想就好了
    • 至于说为性离婚不值的话,那就没什么原因可以让人离婚的了。婚姻关系本身就是为了肉体和精神共为一体才存在的,俩人从不合体的话,只精神恋爱,只能称为同志,而不是夫妻了。
      • 洪兴,有个问题
        你们一周几次啊?哈哈
        • 网上胡说八道并不表示生活里怎么样,只是理清一下自己的思绪,为建设自己的幸福家庭而努力。
        • 接着再问一个问题。
          性高潮率是多少?
          • 想了一下,还是决定回答你俩的问题。
            你的问题的回答是没有。小C的问题答案是频率很低,低到我不能接受的程度。我已经坚决的和老婆讨论过了,她也愿意以后改进。觉的如果你觉的这事对你很重要,那你也没必要自己默默承受,和你老婆讨论一下,让她用别的方式帮你补偿你一下,如果她爱你的话,会愿意让你高兴的。
            • 我就不赞成一夫一妻 ... 让市场来决定 ...
              • 家庭关系松散的话,夫妻之间需要和被需要的感觉就会少很多,也没什么特别好的地方。古代一夫多妻,女的大多觉的自己属于附属品,心理也不怎么健康。
            • 俗话说:食髓知味
              如果能把她弄得很舒服,那就不是频率很低的问题,而是频率太高,男人受不了。所以你是否也有值得检讨的地方?

              我的是已经翻篇了。由于服药的关系,她比我更有需求,如果帮我,那岂不是火上浇油吗?
        • 严重反对这种对网友私人生活问得如此露骨的问题。既有对网友进行人身攻击的嫌疑,也是没有素质的全面表现。衷心希望网友能有点水平,就事论事,不要总抬到他人隐私的台面去。请尊重网友好不好?
          • 有问有答,对话的人没觉得怎么,你怎么了?
            • 对话的人没有反应,不等于别的人不能说出自己感觉出来的不正常现象啊。你的想法总是很怪怪的。为什么都那么窄呢?
              • 谢谢关心和提醒。
                • 不客气。I AM GLAD THAT I COULD HELP。
      • 估计你还年轻。等到了力不从心的时候,你一定不会这么想。
        • 我觉的由于社会发展的原因,大家都不能日落而息了,晚上有别的事做,所以男人女人逐渐性冷淡的越来越多了。
      • 那个,怯怯地举手说明,同志也是有Sex的哦
        • 当然有了。不然要做同志干嘛?女的主要靠舔,男的。。。你自己想。
        • 他这里的同志是不是还是取得20年前的含义,志同道合的意思啊。
    • 不懂....818
    • 你这个往高尚了说算缺憾美吧。。。。你那些玩具藏好喽别让孩子们翻出来。。。。
      确实一人一个活法。。。。一家一个过法。。。。
    • 这事儿。。。翁帆最清楚。
      • 呵呵,指不定人家老杨还有这能力呢。。。。
        • 哇塞,那么老摸着都恶心吧
          • 所以你跟她不同哦。
            • 这个要等我老才知道,嘿嘿
    • 每个人的感受/需要不一样。对女的来说,还有精神上的意义:觉得自己仍然被对方需要,仍然有吸引力,关系仍然亲密。那个发帖的人已经说了,感觉自己被拒绝。。你的经历不说明问题,如果老婆身体好好的,不肯跟你有性,你的感受会不一样吧
    • 我早就说过 , 夫妻关系就是性关系。性关系和谐,夫妻关系就会和谐的。夫妻性关系不和谐,当然有点事情就会吵架。性关系好的,啥事床上都好商量。 我前几天发个帖子,竟然版主给转到医疗版,我再发一次。 性生活方面有障碍的的,除了要前戏多些,
      一些医疗辅助手段也可以借用。顺手给大家推荐两个。推荐给夫妻间用的。 提倡生活远大理想的就别进来了。前一段时间亲亲宝贝坛上推荐过的 well.ca 上有卖的,免邮费的,举例:

      Zestra - Feminine Arousal Fluid - 3 x 0.8 ml - $14.69 CAD
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      女性口服药,治疗冷淡的,植物提取,跟伟哥不同,不是拔苗助长的药,见效慢,无副作用。大家自己google一下药性疗效。
      还有别的自己找。
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    • 你是个男人,你根本不理解那个楼主的感受。男人所要的性就是单纯的性,所以玩具可以解决。女人在性关系要求的不仅仅是单纯的感官刺激,而是性所带来的亲密感,归属感,被需要的满足,等等,复杂多了,不是玩具能给予的。
      • 老外单身女人买玩具的多了去了。
        • 单身和有伴侣不一样吧。那女士的老公,根本不顾及她的情感需要,日常生活可能就更冷漠了。最可怕的是他根本就不想解决的方法。这样还能过20几年,不人道。
          • 把性和生活分开来解决不是会容易一些吗?
            • 那还要婚姻干什么?
              • 你去问问再婚的老年人,他们会给你答案。或者,等你老了,自然会明白。
                • 那位又不是再婚的老年人,说到底吧,婚姻中伴侣要努力满足对方情感,精神,经济上的需要。如果做不到,婚姻就有了问题。
    • 性对老,中,青年男,女, 都重要 ~~
      • ++
    • 其实你说的就一个原因,找不到合意的。如果能找到好的呢。有些中年美女年轻时不乏追求者,弱水三千,只能取一瓢,不过挑花了眼选了个最不行的。大批当年的初恋、粉丝、梦中情人都还嗷嗷的甘愿当备胎呢。如何?
      • 找得到好的,那就去追求自己的幸(性)福吧。不幸的是,多数女人会后悔。不信,你可以找几个问问。
    • 看多大岁数了,否则无性的婚姻中一定是有一方有问题了(我指的不是健康问题)
    • 认真问:性不是婚姻的重要组成部分吗?和爱的人有性关系比较重要还是有婚姻关系比较重要?
      • 认真答:是。性。但现实里有许多婚姻,人们只强调亲情重要,责任重要,爱情根本不重要。现在居然性也不再重要,真是惊讶。
        • 我一直奇怪,好象最重要的是有张纸:)))
      • 少年夫妻,老来伴。中年人到底是夫妻还是伴?
        • 就是伴也得是有感情的伴,也得是亲密伙伴。也不能是个不死不活,不阴不阳的伴,这样的人天天在眼前晃来晃去的,还不如没有呢。
    • 这帖子为啥没转去+O?
      • 那里满了,装不下去了。
    • 性爱灵三位一体,非可遇不可求,而是不可遇。:)
      • 我觉得这是关键所在,所以我们才会见到真实生活中各种各样的挣扎,找到mate应该不难,但要找到一个真正的 Soul-mate 在茫茫人海中的确不是一件易事.
    • 你已经接近圣人了。但绝大多数男士都会因为女士性冷淡而离婚或出轨。
      • 我老婆是生病而非性冷淡。既然说到了“圣人”,不妨XB一下:我老婆没有吃过一片避孕药,更没有上环,结扎,没有意外怀孕。关键词:没有意外怀孕。
        • 对配偶没有性趣,和因她生病而克制和调节自己,是两个不同的概念。如果她健康而你也健康,凭心而论,彼此再无兴趣及性趣,还婚来干嘛?BTW,你做的挺好的。不容易。
        • 恕我愚钝,看不出这 XB 的是啥?请读懂的同学点拨 ~
          • XB他用TT,尊重老婆,爱护老婆,有个TT的广告词就是"做个负责任的男人",他还是直得XB的,做的很好了。
          • 显摆自己跟唐僧、宋江、武松、关羽、柳下惠等人比肩了呗。
          • 因为偶尔会看到有人在抱怨:吃避孕药,上环,结扎等出现副作用,也有人抱怨避孕失败。所以很想大声地说:我的老婆真性福。(我们有10年正常的有性婚姻)
            • (#7559524@0) 多少算性福呢?
              • 你是说性高潮率吗?老婆说是十有八九,我就当作是她对我的鼓励吧。
        • 这不说明问题,我一个女朋友跟她老公多少年来从未采取过任何防护措施,也没怀过孕,有的人就属于不易怀孕型。
          • 10年正常的有性婚姻中,只有一次,在判断会得儿子,并征得老婆同意后,放了一枪,结果如愿以偿。平时,在安全期里,不用TT,都事先征得老婆同意后才放。非安全期里,每次都用TT。
            • 事先征得同意是为了逃避责任。LOL。有两次,生理晚了2天,老婆就威胁我:出了事,就怪你。我笑着回她:把孩子生下来,我当是自己的养。这时,免不了被揍上几拳:你真要我给你戴绿帽子吗?事后证明都是虚惊一场。
            • 安全期不用TT的失败率也很高,安全期不用TT还在体外,我就中过不止一次,这次的老二也是这么来的。只能说你们太好运了。
              • 看来得重新定义安全期了。老婆生理正常很重要。有时也羡慕有意外的,多个孩子也挺好。
                • 你上网去查查,或问问你的家庭医生,在一切生理都正常的情况下安全期避孕是否安全。在你看来,你家不正常的全是正常的,别人正常的事情,再你看来反而不正常了。
                  • 1.我是想玩个小幽默。2.我知道有人会在所谓的安全期里排卵,所以加上一句:老婆生理正常(不在安全期里排卵)。3.如果我的言论使你感到不舒服,在此表示歉意。
    • 你很伟大,但夫妻生活质量太低了...
    • 这贴的尺度是相当的大,以后改为性福家庭算了.不过这要是对了斑竹的性趣,看来是不会进+O的
      • 周末还下大雨,今晚中年男女只能在家待着了, 下午先培养一下性趣嘛, 人道一点好不好, 性对中年人的健康很重要。
        本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛In one of the most credible studies correlating overall health with sexual frequency, Queens University in Belfast tracked the mortality of about 1,000 middle-aged men over the course of a decade. The study was designed to compare persons of comparable circumstances, age and health. Its findings, published in 1997 in the British Medical Journal, were that men who reported the highest frequency of orgasm enjoyed a death rate half that of the laggards. Other studies (some rigorous, some less so) purport to show that having sex even a few times a week has an associative or causal relationship with the following:

        - Improved sense of smell: After sex, production of the hormone prolactin surges. This in turn causes stem cells in the brain to develop new neurons in the brain's olfactory bulb, its smell center.

        - Reduced risk of heart disease: In a 2001 follow-on to the Queens University study mentioned above, researchers focused on cardiovascular health. Their finding? That by having sex three or more times a week, men reduced their risk of heart attack or stroke by half. In reporting these results, the co-author of the study, Shah Ebrahim, Ph.D., displayed the well-loved British gift for understatement: "The relationship found between frequency of sexual intercourse and mortality is of considerable public interest."

        - Weight loss, overall fitness: Sex, if nothing else, is exercise. A vigorous bout burns some 200 calories--about the same as running 15 minutes on a treadmill or playing a spirited game of squash. The pulse rate, in a person aroused, rises from about 70 beats per minute to 150, the same as that of an athlete putting forth maximum effort. British researchers have determined that the equivalent of six Big Macs can be worked off by having sex three times a week for a year. Muscular contractions during intercourse work the pelvis, thighs, buttocks, arms, neck and thorax. Sex also boosts production of testosterone, which leads to stronger bones and muscles. Men's Health magazine has gone so far as to call the bed the single greatest piece of exercise equipment ever invented.

        - Reduced depression: Such was the implication of a 2002 study of 293 women. American psychologist Gordon Gallup reported that sexually active participants whose male partners did not use condoms were less subject to depression than those whose partners did. One theory of causality: Prostoglandin, a hormone found only in semen, may be absorbed in the female genital tract, thus modulating female hormones.

        - Pain-relief: Immediately before orgasm, levels of the hormone oxytocin surge to five times their normal level. This in turn releases endorphins, which alleviate the pain of everything from headache to arthritis to even migraine. In women, sex also prompts production of estrogen, which can reduce the pain of PMS.

        - Less-frequent colds and flu: Wilkes University in Pennsylvania says individuals who have sex once or twice a week show 30% higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A, which is known to boost the immune system.

        - Better bladder control: Heard of Kegel exercises? You do them, whether you know it or not, every time you stem your flow of urine. The same set of muscles is worked during sex.

        - Better teeth: Seminal plasma contains zinc, calcium and other minerals shown to retard tooth decay. Since this is a family Web site, we will omit discussion of the mineral delivery system. Suffice it to say that it could be a far richer, more complex and more satisfying experience than squeezing a tube of Crest--even Tartar Control Crest. Researchers have noted, parenthetically, that sexual etiquette usually demands the brushing of one's teeth before and/or after intimacy, which, by itself, would help promote better oral hygiene.

        - A happier prostate? Some urologists believe they see a relationship between infrequency of ejaculation and cancer of the prostate. The causal argument goes like this: To produce seminal fluid, the prostate and the seminal vesicles take such substances from the blood as zinc, citric acid and potassium, then concentrate them up to 600 times. Any carcinogens present in the blood likewise would be concentrated. Rather than have concentrated carcinogens hanging around causing trouble, it's better to evict them. Regular old sex could do the job. But if the flushing of the prostate were your only objective, masturbation might be a better way to go, especially for the non-monogamous male. Having sex with multiple partners can, all by itself, raise a man's risk of cancer by up to 40%. That's because he runs an increased risk of contracting sexual infections. So, if you want the all the purported benefits of flushing with none of the attendant risk, go digital. A study recently published by the British Journal of Urology International asserts that men in their 20s can reduce by a third their chance of getting prostate cancer by ejaculating more than five times a week.

        While possession of a robust appetite for sex--and the physical ability to gratify it--may not always be the cynosure of perfect health, a reluctance to engage can be a sign that something is seriously on the fritz, especially where the culprit is an infirm erection.

        Dr. J. Francois Eid, a urologist with Weill Medical College of Cornell University and New York Presbyterian Hospital, observes that erectile dysfunction is extension of vascular system. A lethargic member may be telling you that you have diseased blood vessels elsewhere in your body. "It could be a first sign of hypertension or diabetes or increased cholesterol levels. It's a red flag that you should see your doctor." Treatment and exercise, says Dr. Eid, can have things looking up again: "Men who exercise and have a good heart and low heart rate, and who are cardio-fit, have firmer erections. There very definitely is a relationship."更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 你很伟大,但你不能要求别人都跟你这么伟大啊。。。。
    • 这和伟大有什么关系啊,只是说你饿了,有的人饱而已。
    • 性和爱在婚姻中同样重要,各占50%。
    • 性和爱在婚姻中同样重要,各占50%。只要其中一样没有了,这个婚姻就够呛了。
    • 同情一下楼主,性趣太低,高潮都是老婆告诉的。更没见过潮吹了。
      • 潮吹真的是没有,只是在AV片里见识过。
        • 最近看到排球队汤淼和太太离婚了,多志同道合的夫妻啊?为何要离婚呢?请楼主解释下!还有你这没啥Xb的,周围听到accident怀孕的毕竟少数,个人选择适合的办法,只能说你熟练和适合运用某种而已
      • 我也觉得诧异。女人有高潮和没有高潮,床上的表现差别太大了,老公怎么看不出来呢?
        • 我只是想谦虚一点,所以用老婆的口气说出来。
    • 楼主很坦率,给你些掌声。
      • 非常欣赏LZ的坦诚,站在这儿一起给你些掌声! 
        早想说了,怕挨的砖头太多,现在有你帮我分担一半儿,我想我应该吃得消.

        也谢谢你敢于表达自己想法的坦诚.
        • 另外,也欣赏楼主的回复,不卑不亢。
    • 最愚痴的一个问题!为你那几年的日子难受。
      • 可能你还年轻。我并不认为性是生活的全部。
        • 个人生活不辛不是你的错,但出来要求人就是你的问题了。典型的中国男思维:把压抑当崇高!
          • 这点说得太对路了。是该反思反思了。最可悲的是压抑到最后,不是伤害别人,就是伤害自己。最后还来个都是别人错。所以希望各位国男精英们,是否能反思一下自己陈腐的思维。把精神健康搞得高档次点呢?
          • 我只是说离了以后很难找到更好的,如果你认为可以,那么就去离吧。另外,我有疏导渠道,我有压抑吗?
            • cleanwater,这位QQ234网友仅仅表达了他的感觉,而且很明确的指出来,他认为你如此要求别人和你一样,有点太过牵强了。不要这样,一听到不同意见,马上就觉得"受害"了,跳起来发急。不太好吧。
              • 好吧,有则改之,无则加冕。
    • 一般地说,青年人没有性就没有婚姻,性是基本要求,爱是较高要求,中年人,各一半吧.较好的性或较好的爱都会弥补另一边的不足,可以维持较好的婚姻,老年人应该就基本剩下感情了.有没有性问题应该不大.
    • good for you if it works out...just don't judge others....
      • 我就老被我老公拒绝,他说累。时间长了,我也没兴趣了。虽然人刚开始步入中年,可是人长的年轻,竟然被一个刚出校门不久的年轻人追。很严厉的拒绝了,说了已婚。
        他还老找我。这种落差,让我很是难受。可是,以我的性格,应给不会做出格的事, 只能忍着。我不想我的孩子因为婚姻受到伤害。
        所以,我同意楼主说的, 性对中年妇女很重要。可是,孩子的幸福更重要。不知道我是不是太老套了。