认识一对印巴夫妻。很好。人家有a couple kids,one is girl and one is boy. Since husband is 10 years older than wife. During recent 5 years,they negotiate to be in "family" to take care of kids together. They have seldom quarreled.Kids are healthy and happy too. I quite often see the wife driving out for dating. The husband is sincere and fair and reasonable.sometimes He looks sad but recently he is not and told neighbor "Life is a party.When over, it over". They both are also open to tell the kid and others the truth.They have never had complain who needs to take care kids more.

Open,honest,fair...男人人品最重要。女人精神上一定要独立。