basically, it's 50/50. even though you go to the court, the court will put child(ren)'s benefit/interests first.

lucy13(Lucy13)

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛if your wife has a job, she cannot ask for spousal support. you and your wife share half custody for your child(ren). if your wife has no job now, she is expected to self-support later (go find a job--but it's hard, i know if a mother stays home for long time), or, if she remarry later, she cannot ask for spousal support.

you both share all expense for your child(ren).
for the house you are living now, you can sell it and share half the money; or if you want to give to your wife and your kids live there, it's up to you.

do not think divorce will be bad to your child(ren)---an unhappy home is not a healthy living environment. kids can tell whether they are living in a loving home or not, and they will understand. you may find another woman who loves your kids, loves you later.

read articles from government of canada. family law--it's not hard to comprehend at all.

i will suggest you go talk to a lawyer(find community legal service--it's free), even you can go to the courtroom and make appointment and ask questions, it's free.

good luck.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

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不划算 -mikesmith(老猫); 2013-4-18 (#8157452@0)

推到自身，现在我每月为家庭支出 4500美元。离婚后最差状况出1500。加上现在自身生活水准需要1000，每月少化2000 -torontolost(无解了？); 2013-4-18 (#8157454@0)

离婚后就不想让前妻孩子过好日子了？ -mikesmith(老猫); 2013-4-18 (#8157455@0)

你能相信吗？今早我洗完澡，把浴巾迭好防好，她居然毫无理由扔到客厅地上 -torontolost(无解了？); 2013-4-18 (#8157456@0)

老猫说说，这样的女人怎样才叫对得起她？是谁想毁孩子们的家。 -torontolost(无解了？); 2013-4-18 (#8157458@0)
要真像你说的那么不堪，那你就这么办：分居，并且从这个月开始，只给1500家用....让她母子俩好好尝尝离婚后被男人抛弃的滋味。当然，后果自负了。 -mikesmith(老猫); 2013-4-18 (#8157459@0)

还是给2000吧，别太狠了 -firetrain(火车头); 2013-4-18 (#8157682@0)

洗完澡不能叠好浴巾，要拿去洗了烘干 -lovebb(家有肥小米); 2013-4-18 (#8157491@0)

那分奢侈，只有早晨不要赶着上班看老板脸色养家糊口的人。再说，我把用过的浴巾搭在架子上想晾干，已经被人扔到地上好多次了。 -torontolost(无解了？); 2013-4-18 (#8157506@0)

她不想跟你过了。虽然离婚是双刃剑，尤其还有两个孩子，但已别无选择。最低的尊重都得不到。 -newownerme(新屋主); 2013-4-18 (#8158241@0)
狂躁症？ -yifeitong(平湖秋月); 2013-4-18 (#8158711@0)

看你天天不同故事的在这儿控诉家里的悍妇，但你却始终没有说到关键的地方 -mxinmfei(没新没废); 2013-4-18 {120} (#8157581@0)
我老人家不厚道地给你点出来：是不是兄弟你某些方面功夫不行啊，再好的女人长期得不到满足也是会爆发的甚至变态的。。。。。。。

你错了 -torontolost(无解了？); 2013-4-18 (#8157594@0)

希望是我错了 -mxinmfei(没新没废); 2013-4-18 {28} (#8157605@0)
那你为啥下了床就整不过她呢？

若是这样，那受煎熬的是他lp??瞧这事给整的。看来钱在一些人眼里是everything! -qaz13243546(hi); 2013-4-18 (#8159110@0)

那你就离呗。又没人不让你离。 -lilianliang(彪妹); 2013-4-18 (#8157460@0)

这不是这里好多人被女权口号吓得不敢离婚，俺给他们说明一下 -torontolost(无解了？); 2013-4-18 (#8157463@0)

你纸上谈兵没啥意思。最近貌似就你的吐槽贴最多，不如先离了再谈离后感。:-))) -lilianliang(彪妹); 2013-4-18 (#8157482@0)

这个就不需要担心了。这里就是减压和于有同感者交流的地方 -torontolost(无解了？); 2013-4-18 (#8157508@0)

那你为什么要算离婚经济账呢？ -tattooo(蝴蝶); 2013-4-18 (#8157521@0)
我就知道雷声大的雨点儿必然小。:p -lilianliang(彪妹); 2013-4-18 (#8157524@0)

净身出户的都是为了给孩子一个好的居住环境，自私的男人比较少见，bs -lovebb(家有肥小米); 2013-4-18 (#8157493@0)

你家那位作的如何，给我们秀秀正能量。肉联被我贴得有些太愁云惨雾了。 -torontolost(无解了？); 2013-4-18 (#8157515@0)

分居一年才能离婚，先分居再说吧。以你的条件来看，可能不用多久就有女朋友了。 -mid-night(羊); 2013-4-18 (#8157558@0)

不要为了新女友离婚。 -firetrain(火车头); 2013-4-18 (#8157687@0)

婚姻是女人互相砍杀的工具，谁拥有婚姻谁就掌握制高点。 -mid-night(羊); 2013-4-18 (#8157759@0)

如果这样，还不如穆斯林 -firetrain(火车头); 2013-4-20 (#8161561@0)

别纠结于这些了。能摆脱一个地狱，花多少钱都是值得的。 -princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟); 2013-4-18 (#8157568@0)

basically, it's 50/50. even though you go to the court, the court will put child(ren)'s benefit/interests first. -lucy13(Lucy13); 2013-4-18 {1073} (#8157579@0)

Very informative post. However you are playing piano in front of ox. Don't take LZ serious. -yusheng(拜月); 2013-4-18 (#8157589@0)

看看大家在你的问题上看法是多么的一致~~~ 就一个字, 离! ~~~ -littlebird09(小小鸟); 2013-4-18 (#8157647@0)

＋1，，，同意的欢迎在下面排队。。。 -lifeisgoodd(无花果); 2013-4-18 (#8157660@0)

LZ 来这儿的目的好似不象是为离婚而来的, 我同意下面黑鸟的说法~~~ -littlebird09(小小鸟); 2013-4-18 (#8157717@0)

一直不想打击你。。。你和你老婆就是天造地设的一对绝配，你俩这辈子（也许还有下辈子）谁也离不开谁。。。所以你就甭想着啥离婚了，没戏。。。 -redsky(忧伤苹果之睡不醒的冬); 2013-4-18 (#8157659@0)

商榷，偶觉得不是谁也离不开谁，而是LZ离不开老婆，think about it ~ ~ -sr-71(Black); 2013-4-18 (#8157693@0)

越发激起我对那个老婆的好奇和无限敬仰了, 什么样的魅力能使楼主如此地身心被虐待仍执迷不悔? -tattooo(蝴蝶); 2013-4-18 (#8157701@0)

被虐狂。 -mid-night(羊); 2013-4-18 (#8157740@0)
所以需要呼叫他LP 上来说说嘛~~~ -littlebird09(小小鸟); 2013-4-18 (#8157774@0)

LZ夫妻俩就是一对前世冤家。。。女的离不开男的，离开了去哪里找这样怎么揉怎么捏都全盘接受的人啊。。。男的也离不开女的，离开了他就该失去主心骨了。。。 -redsky(忧伤苹果之睡不醒的冬); 2013-4-18 (#8157761@0)

我认为女人需要的应该是一个相爱的男人，而并非是怎么揉怎么捏都全盘接受的人啊 ~ 谁嫌弃谁现在还看不太清 ~ ~ -sr-71(Black); 2013-4-18 (#8158432@0)

需要付孩子老婆抚养费赡养费的情况下，他选择了用财产来抵未来n年要付的钱。其实只是承担了法定抚养责任的一种方法。在法律责任后多付额外的钱，才是真正的心意所在。一个净身出户不能清楚地表达所有的东西。 -upad(铁岭屯二道街); 2013-4-18 (#8158314@0)

@PEI

basically, it's 50/50. even though you go to the court, the court will put child(ren)'s benefit/interests first.

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