本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Just like Canadian Government's policy in immigrant, money means the past, your ability or potential means future. Most of people don't feel convenient if they don't have a bright future except he/she is as rich as a millionaire.

In Canada, we lost our network (of course you can build up again, but how about your husband? Do you think about that and care about it?) This is the most important resource for a human.

We lost our quality and value here. Some even go to labor like your husband. Does he have the quality and value in China? Do you happen to help him to balance the difference? Do you think he can persuade himself to accept the reality?

Of course, generally, normally, there is no doubt, I am greatly convinced, that all the things I mentioned above should be considered by a man or a human or a husband himself, not some others. However, to your specific case, we have reasons to believe he may not realize these and you care these largely. He should know but he didn't know. Then? If I were the lover of him, I will try to lighten him.


You have money, that's good. At least is better than those who hasn't money (do anyone lack money for living here?) But keep in mind, money is just money. Life is not just money (except too much money to spend out like Jack Cheng).

There is no doubt that most of ladies are easier to melt into the society than men. That's very fortunate! Otherwise, you will not have enough time to think about these troubles and try to solve them. Try to use these money and your advantage effectively (send him to a school, for example) to restore his value, then you will be happy.

At that time, money and husband will be yours again. Life is go into a new level.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net