Topic: Am I wrong? @爱德华王子岛华人论坛:爱德华王子岛枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of PEI

You do not understand. If he is near me, I am neverous about making mistake. But more mistake. -annayin(自由，离你多远?); 2003-8-21 (#1340590@0)

#1339987 Talk to your husband. Let him know your feelings. -pingle(:-&); 2003-8-21 (#1340594@0)

He knew this. He expect my change. But it is very difficult for me to change. Since I am like a person talk by heart not by brain. -annayin(自由，离你多远?); 2003-8-21 (#1340600@0)

你做得很对。如果那对夫妻是明理的人，应该会感谢你的小心谨慎。 -diver(); 2003-8-20 (#1339925@0)
"No matter what they tell us / No matter what they do / No matter what they teach us / What we believe is true / I can't deny what I belive / I can't be what I 'm not / I know I'll love forever/This is one of my favourite song: NO MATTER WHAT. Every time when I feel confused and frustrated, I sing this song to myself to keep calm and have faith in my ablity again. -safina(Rise of Nations); 2003-8-20 {172} (#1339936@0)

Yes. I was really lost confidence before. But later I found my way to stand, no matter how lonely I am. -annayin(自由，离你多远?); 2003-8-21 (#1340587@0)

嗯，我倒是觉得你老公说的有道理呢。“you should ask to offer, and then let them decide"。没什么对错，只是礼节和习惯吧：） -dropoutinmiami(饺子-抓紧时间过夏天); 2003-8-20 (#1339970@0)

万一碰上对2了吧唧的父母，再万一出点什么意外，即使自己不用负责也逃不出自责吧？况且法律在这方面如何规定的我们也不知道。 -rockywei(落基山); 2003-8-20 (#1339983@0)
嗯。但老公应该比较了解自己的老婆是个什么样的人，不应该多说，让对方感觉受责备。因为这种“面儿”上的事情怎么处理，不是一朝一夕可以改变的，也没有必要去强行改变。人跟人不同，要是我，可能我连自己的儿子也不会给买那个糖果。 -pingle(:-&); 2003-8-20 (#1339987@0)
只有无害的东西才可以那样，那叫客气。如果明知对baby不好也offe,做人也太虚伪不负责了吧。即使是他们决定要不要，真出问题，也要负责的。 -diver(); 2003-8-20 (#1339988@0)

天哪，这么多谴责？顺便问问什么是worm candy？不是那种长长的酸酸的挺有嚼头的糖吧（如果是，我倒是挺爱吃）：） -dropoutinmiami(饺子-抓紧时间过夏天); 2003-8-20 (#1339999@0)

你为什么不能把理由说得更清楚一些呢。很多事情不须你为别人作决定的。你可以把糖给他们以护住老公面子，同时明确声明吃很危险。 -frankbd(三缄其口); 2003-8-20 (#1340018@0)

Yes. You are right. That is my problem. I always assume others knows. I did not think others may not understand. -annayin(自由，离你多远?); 2003-8-21 (#1340583@0)

你做的没错，但可以更好。你知道吃糖不好，他们未必。你应假设别人不懂而把这点顾虑指出。这样就不用觉得委屈了。 -frankbd(三缄其口); 2003-8-20 (#1340021@0)

我觉得你没错，很多老外也是这样，非常直爽的说出他们认为对的或者错的，并不管你心里是怎么想的。其实你也不知道对方怎么想，也许你给他们，他们反而认为不好，但可能会碍于面子收下。就象有一次一个老外给我女儿一块巧克力，还很热情的帮她拨开。我也不好意思说这个对孩子不好。结果吃的把我一件衣服都弄脏了。真不知道是该谢他还是骂他。 -cocojj(咖啡可可茶); 2003-8-20 {224} (#1340313@0)
Thanks everyone here. for understanding and concern. Before I hesitate to post it, since I think nobody care. Now I feel much better. -annayin(自由，离你多远?); 2003-8-21 (#1340576@0)
Nonetheless, I feel that you really need to improve your communication skill, this is a society needs more friendship and communication.U could not survice if you are lack of communication skill either in life or at work.

I am not sure whether you are working now or not, if the answer is yes, I bet your supervisor doesn't like this kind of style.....

No intention to offend you, just my sincere suggestion.
Good luck. -xinlin(痛苦的学习着的欣琳); 2003-8-21 {293} (#1340615@0)

In fact, I am very society person from my little age -annayin(自由，离你多远?); 2003-8-21 {925} (#1340698@0)

so, seems like that's your Hubby's problem!he's making you feel not so confident in your life, so, drop him! ;) as far as i know, your hubby speaks toooooooo much, always sounds like he know everthing, is that bother you? give him a punch, make him respect you and accept your way to live......haha poor jack -lakeshore(lakeshore); 2003-8-21 {266} (#1340830@0)

We are so different persons. 哎，互补之后互斥。 -annayin(自由，离你多远?); 2003-8-21 (#1340943@0)

Hi I am glad you finally composed some chinese. Your English is sort of ...bad! Ha ha we are the same kind of person! Agree? -aa1(JR); 2003-8-21 (#1341535@0)

Never mind. I got a enough criticise. That is why I try my best to practice. But in rush. Sorry. -annayin(自由，离你多远?); 2003-8-22 (#1341917@0)

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