Topic: 各位帮帮我：我B1B2刚被拒。 @爱德华王子岛华人论坛:爱德华王子岛枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of PEI

枫下茶话 / 法律 / 各位帮帮我：我B1B2刚被拒。我是来了6个月的新移民。男朋友是美国公民。如果我现在结婚，多长时间可以到美国？对加身份有影响吗？如果现在不结婚，有什么办法能尽快去美国。求求各位。如果我还不能去，他恐怕要挟持我去了。有什么后果？ -emmy899(nini); 2004-1-28 {193} (#1581573@0)

If the guy is sincere, he can petition her to U.S. on fiancee visa (K-1). Then get married in U.S. within 90 days and then she is granted conditional green card,then blah blah, everything is done. why bother to do all these? -clear(clear); 2004-1-30 {63} (#1583220@0)

美国公民 is just 男朋友 ! She had better ask help from Mr. Heartbeat(马乙) #1579806 -huimin(huimin); 2004-1-30 (#1583333@0)

the purpose of K-1 visa is just for the girl friend to go to the States to see the boy friend and get married. and based on her message, they are at this stage and ready to get married. -clear(clear); 2004-1-30 (#1583342@0)

You are right. If that's the case, she should get the visa without problem. But now the case is just " based on her message ", what's 美国公民男朋友的 message. 美国guy want to marry her ? Who knows ? #1581632 -huimin(huimin); 2004-1-30 (#1583376@0)

look at the initial message she posted, '如果我现在结婚，多长时间可以到美国' -clear(clear); 2004-1-30 (#1583381@0)

" 如果我现在结婚 ", That's what she want, but 美国公民男朋友 may not want to marry her. Otherwise why " 他已经找过很多律师了。没办法，等的时间太长了。我们已经等了两年了" (#1581632) Too simple ! -huimin(huimin); 2004-1-30 (#1583400@0)

the only explanation for why she has to keep on waiting and can not get B1/B2 visa is that her boyfriend is just a green card holder not an American citizen.K-1 is only open for available for citizens. If she wait another two years plus the two years she already waited, her boyfriend will obtain the citizenship and get her K-1 or apply green card directly.The waiting list for spouse of american citizen for green card is just 90 days or so, for green card holder will be 5 years or more. That's why lots of people want to go to U.S. on B1/B2 and then change status within the states. -clear(clear); 2004-1-30 {430} (#1583420@0)

Don't change the subject. " look at the initial message she posted ". " 男朋友是美国公民 " #1581573 They are just " friend " 男朋友不是未婚夫( Her boyfriend is not her fiance ) That's why she has to try B1/B2 visa. -huimin(huimin); 2004-1-30 (#1583443@0)

if they are just friend and has no plan to live or stay together,then the guy can come here for visit,continue their love story without any marriage for nowand why she has to MOVE to the U.S.If she is going to U.S. just for her personal reason,she should have put the message purely as 'I want to go to U.S. for travel and B1/B2 is rejected, Please help.' without all those unecessary decoration. If they are just FRIEND and have no plan to tie the knot, you think she is silly enough to wait all these years for nothing, for simply travelling and visiting friends there? -clear(clear); 2004-1-30 {382} (#1583457@0)

1. You have to ask the lady to answer your question. She is the one who posted the message. 2. Sometime people do get silly include myself. 3. It is fun to read 热点话题 #1581573 and #1579806 -huimin(huimin); 2004-1-30 (#1583462@0)

1. You state in your previous message that 'They are just friends', that's why I reply to your message. 2. emotionly silly is common for us woman, but ignorance-based silly can be avoided.:-)3. very interesting, you got good eyes.:-) -clear(clear); 2004-1-30 {42} (#1583470@0)

Yes, Yes, Yes, they are just friends. The lady said: " 男朋友是美国公民 " #1581573 She never mentioned 未婚夫是美国公民. Again, 男朋友是男朋友, 未婚夫是未婚夫. The lady may mess up two things. That's silly. -huimin(huimin); 2004-1-30 (#1583490@0)

all right, let us call it an end. I don't want to discuss further the difference between fiancee and boyfried, especially for those who have no tradition to get engaged before marriage there is basically no difference.Just wish her the best luck in whatever goal she is pursuing -clear(clear); 2004-1-30 {60} (#1583502@0)

律师说，结婚团聚最快是半年，但通常是两年，或更长。不敢结婚。
不结婚，可以办B1/B2，有希望快一点，结婚了，就只有一条路了。结婚以后等两年不是容易过的日子。我在中国时到现在已经等了2年了。他是美国公民，外国人，不是中国人。所以，不是持绿卡者。 -emmy899(nini); 2004-1-31 {188} (#1584607@0)

律师说，结婚后团聚至少半年，只比这长，不比这短。所以，不敢结婚。办b1/b2就只等两个月排期，如果可以拿到，立刻就可以在一起，到美后再结婚，在申请团聚。两边都有公司，他的公司更需要他，他离不开，也没有更多的时间总是来。周末来一次，他后面一个月歇不了班。 -emmy899(nini); 2004-1-31 {199} (#1584602@0)

他是我的未婚夫。如果我们结婚比未婚，申请我到美更快一些。现在就可以结婚。但如果让他结婚后再等两年，他不愿意，想通过B1/B2更快一些。因为有条件这样做，现在我刚开了公司。他在美有很好的公司，他属于工狂的人。他不会来加拿大定居。 -emmy899(nini); 2004-1-31 {205} (#1584579@0)

他有公司在美国，他属于工作狂的人，除了他的工作，对其他事了解的不多。他不能来这里。 -emmy899(nini); 2004-1-31 (#1584568@0)

你认识Mr. Heartbeat(马乙)吗? #1579806 , Mr. 马乙或许能帮你. -huimin(huimin); 2004-1-29 (#1582518@0)

男友没有任何法律意义。找个好点的工作，可能得到最长10年的VISA.然后不时再回来晃晃。结婚办团聚。 -digua0(地瓜); 2004-2-4 (#1591303@0)

试过。在做简单工作，但不能拿到签证。找计算机专业工作，我的学历达不到，英语也说不上太好。现在一边工作，一边提高语言。需要时间。我并没有浪费时间。再读书不现实，40岁的人很难。现在成立了公司。计划自己运作公司，也许更实际一点。谢谢帮助。 -emmy899(nini); 2004-2-5 {226} (#1591979@0)

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