Topic: 一个女人， @爱德华王子岛华人论坛:爱德华王子岛枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of PEI

枫下家园 / 幸福家庭 / 一个女人，精神上不依赖你，物质上不依赖你，那么请问你，要你干什么？对于女人不要要求太高了，又美又会做饭的，那是美的电饭煲，又可爱又永远不会老的那是樱桃小丸子，又经济独立又以你为中心的那是你妈，又美又可爱又会做饭又永远不会老又经济独立又以你为中心的，那是你妈正在用美的电饭煲给你煮樱桃小丸子！

金星语录 -jiajiaca(虾皮也是海鲜); 2015-11-24 {292} (#9790568@0) +3

金星这是在大庭广众前明目张胆的装他天生没有的东西啊。 -icespeeder(Speeder On Ice); 2015-11-24 (#9790603@0) +1

to have genuine intimacy with a woman -- for I don't need you to make money because I make enough money myself, and I don't need your wisdom because I am wise enough myself. all I need is a woman with genuine femininity-- is it too much to ask? -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2015-11-24 (#9790846@0)

genuine femininity这种低层次需要, 可以从市场上买, 为什么还要住在一起呢? money, wisdom, genuine femininity, 这是一个婚姻需要和包含的所有的东西? 你不觉得少了什么? -followher2(安知鱼); 2015-11-24 (#9790870@0)

genuine femininity is the highest and hardest a man can demand from a woman,simply because I want to love you as a genuine woman, not as a money-printing machine, nor as my dissertation adviser. true, you can buy enough flesh from the market but there is no soul. genuine femininity is the beautifully soulful submission of the feminine will in all its tenderness and sweetness. -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2015-11-24 {303} (#9790923@0)

只能说你是极其传统的大男人, 你所描绘的genuine femininity, 是你demand的only. -followher2(安知鱼); 2015-11-24 (#9791001@0)

if we firmly believe equality among human beings and if we have enough respect for other human beings, then we must appreciate the fact that no one, not under any circumstance, would blindly submit her genuine femininity to an unworthy man. genuine femininity is something you kill yourself to earn, not a free lunch. -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2015-11-24 {215} (#9791095@0)

同意前半部分, 但是不同意后半部分. 定义"worthy", 是非常个性化的和主观的东西, 没有标准, 所以没有办法earn. 准确的说, 应该是被submited那一方, 能够catch吧. -followher2(安知鱼); 2015-11-24 (#9791122@0)

a man would "earn" genuine femininity by offering a "price" the woman cannot refuse,A price nobody else has ever offered. the essence of this offering is being unselfish, in what form and shape doesn't really matter (it could be giving up your career, your life, or your wealth). the man who is capable of making such offer is usually the most selfish type, for he knows clearly only by giving himself up can he eventually fulfill the ultimate selfish deed -- to own another person body and soul altogether. -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2015-11-24 {423} (#9791185@0)

这就是我上面那个跟贴说的, 不能说是一个女人依赖你, 而是你offer那个女人依赖, 是你给出的price. 女人对你的依赖, 不是你失去的东西, 而是你得到的东西, 你需要这个女人的依赖, 而这个女人恰恰能给出这种依赖. -followher2(安知鱼); 2015-11-24 (#9791205@0)

a man achieves his genuine masculinity when he truly provides and protects,as what happens in the animal kingdom. in modern context such providing and protecting may assume the form of emotional, financial, or physical. but the essence is the same. similarly, a woman reveals her genuine femininity when she is being provided and protected -- it doesn't matter whether she is a millionaire, a top-notch scholar, or a pure beauty. "柔情似水" applies to all women. men just have to earn it. -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2015-11-24 {416} (#9791262@0)

"whatever 情似 whatever" applys to both man and woman, 当offer achieves的时候. -followher2(安知鱼); 2015-11-24 (#9791276@0)

it won't work the other way,.e.g. if the woman is playing provider and protector -- it is against the law of nature. a genuine relationship between male and female must incorporate what is profoundly embedded in our biological genealogy. the closer we are to our animal origin, the more genuine will the relationship be. when I said "柔情似水 applies to all women" it simply meant if a man is truly a man, he will never see bitch or "悍妇' in his life. -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2015-11-24 {425} (#9791321@0)

对了, 听说金星要替代黄涵上非诚勿扰, 想象不出来结果会怎样, 觉得她骨子里其实还是很男人~~~ -littlebird09(小小鸟); 2015-11-24 (#9790887@0) +2

他就是站在男人的角度教女人，没点儿女性特质，跟个泼妇似的。 -arfeifei(老顽童★[O|||||||O]); 2015-11-24 (#9790956@0)

Because it's not nature! ∥ರ ರ)╭ -arfeifei(老顽童★[O|||||||O]); 2015-11-24 (#9790968@0)

看过她的一些节目, 不喜欢她~~ 只是换了个性别而已, 还是男人~~ -littlebird09(小小鸟); 2015-11-24 (#9790979@0) +2

赞！写得蛮好，乐s人，message我老公了 -qiaoliang(qiaoqiao); 2015-11-24 (#9791098@0)
她对做女人还是很拿捏到位的。我那天还对女儿说：看，她变成女性是正确的，因为她有比女人还女人的心态。 -3662930(aveeno); 2015-11-24 (#9791192@0)
笑死了！如果说她不女人，我想至少２０％的原装女人也不是女人吧。我曾经在工作中接触过金星，私底下她人还挺耐死的，也挺斯文的。但评论问题的时候确实很尖刻。很多女人都这样啊。 -thenetherlands(荷兰风光); 2015-11-26 (#9794717@0)

哈哈，“挺耐死，挺斯文的，但评论问题的时候确实很尖刻”，可以请来肉联，大家“泼”ta~ -qiaoliang(qiaoqiao); 2015-11-26 (#9794907@0)
这人是个聪明人。 -turestory(wukong); 2015-11-26 (#9794915@0)

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