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枫下家园 / 幸福家庭 / 娶大龄女医生好吗？大家有啥看法？谢！
-city2008(ca);
2016-1-16
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那得看你什么条件
-lanblue(蓝);
2016-1-16
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好! 女大三，抱金砖
-firetrain(火车头);
2016-1-16
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你干什么的？她想嫁你吗？
-happysurfing(孩子王);
2016-1-16
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国内的还是国外的？哪里的执照？
-zrxxx(✰✪✯★✬✫✮✩);
2016-1-16
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变量不充分。打回重写：身高，胸围（有三围更好），年龄，皮肤还能否掐出水来，等等。
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-16
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你的意思是如果皮肤水肿就不要了，是吗？
-spitfireto(很有意思);
2016-1-16
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指皮肤还有湿润度＝不是太老象树皮。
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-16
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皮肤掐出水，除了18岁以下的，还有吗？
-qianshiyuanjia(purple fish);
2016-1-16
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因人而异兼比喻说法。保养得体３０＋仍然会有相对大的湿润度－－所谓一眼望去可以辨别出皮肤下浅蓝色淡淡的毛细血管。
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-16
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你都55+，还要30啊？差25岁以上
-qianshiyuanjia(purple fish);
2016-1-16
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So? My spouse happens to be much younger than me, is there a problem?
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-16
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情场老手啊
-qianshiyuanjia(purple fish);
2016-1-16
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情场老手不是这样的，他是要强，再说了，市场就是秤与交易，感情不是没有，是交易的附属。
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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what if I am poor and debt laden? would you still consider it as a good "deal" for money? Money is good. but we would be extremely stupid to make life decisions based on money.
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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you are fully understood. however, life decisions are based on those stuff or the influence (it just seems like) derived from those stuff. the key point is if you were still you but you'd happened to be in a poor state, think.., you are over-confident.
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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I am still "me" and as I said I am "poor and debt laden". A person must really have no money sense if she pick me up for money, for I have never been "rich" enough to be qualified as one.
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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then why a young lady choose an old guy, for what?
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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A hundred people will have a hundred plus one answers
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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Give you some more perspective. Would you choose someone for money if you know that person must support his parents, his EX, and put his kid through medical school, and he is known for being a careless spender?
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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Every woman respect money. But not all of them love money
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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then it must be an exception because it is easy and optimal for a yound lady to choose a guy who is much younger and more with new concepts, style and energy than an old guy with the same other characters
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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or one of the exceptions. :)
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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Will you still consider it an exception if it is "ladys" not just "lady"?
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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did you say that it is normal for ladies to choose old guys rather than their peer guys?
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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The world is hardly normal in a "normal" sense. Is same sex marriage "normal"? Who is the judge for what is normal and what is not normal?
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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not the mainstream, the minority. It's not a right or wrong thing; it is just not a trend for the human society to go.
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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however, I won't choose a guy as my life partner who is much older than me even though that guy has more money than young guys or anything else, like whatever that is, personality, experience, traits, etc. a lover maybe.
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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Being possessive might be one of the "main stream" traits we humans share. If you are really into someone you would want to own him or her 150%, not 50 or 60%, no matter how much will power you apply in keeping him/her at a "lover" distance
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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it might be that I can't be really into someone who is much older than me. it is unfair for me to spend my half or most of my life to be with that old guy without betral, so to possess him as a lover is perfect for this situation.
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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All that matters is whether we feel we have made our choice wisely and freely. Celine Dion chose differently but that is just her and that does not indicate her choice must be a universal truth
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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actually I think about her case too,:), I have a pity on her. she is so young and what a life to be with her man in 5-year struggling with cancer at age 73. she might have happiness in the past, but still not worth it; lover-relationship will do better in this case.
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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We must assume she is smart enough to have chosen what she truly wanted. The rest would be a story between her late husband and herself that we won't have the privilege to peruse
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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sure. a person who chooses suicide generally feels totally free at that moment.
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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We can only choose happiness freely. Our animal instinct for avoiding pain and death makes choosing suicide an action against our free will
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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then it is our animal instinct too for a young lady to avoid living with an old man who has wrinkled skin. it is the same thing like you won't choose a woman when she is at her age of "can't be 掐出水儿” at any price.
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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That is a good one! And it could be true. To each his own
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2016-1-17
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even though there still are women doing that or still are people who choose suicide.
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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好啊，有经济基础，独立自主，家庭医生，保健大夫，你就是甩手掌柜
-ddtt(0fen);
2016-1-16
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没有其他候选人了么？
-troyd(sept 7th);
2016-1-16
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爱谁就娶谁呗。。。难道是娶工作？？？
-ltndsy(Joanna);
2016-1-16
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多欢乐的回贴！全部＋1
-caihongfengyuhou(caihong);
2016-1-16
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我也来凑个热闹！
-bennyxyz(Ben);
2016-1-16
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不要就转让~
-arfeifei(老顽童★[O|||||||O]);
2016-1-16
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系！
-minitoy(小小);
2016-1-16
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求女医生联系方式！(●˘◡˘●)
-arfeifei(老顽童★[O|||||||O]);
2016-1-17
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别忘了先去查一下 doctors review
-isup(isup);
2016-1-17
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我们单位的华裔女医生40多，美国长大，未婚。。。回头我告诉你，在哪里可以"偶遇" 到她。。。
-cute99(简单);
2016-1-17
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前提是别让我缺胳膊断腿。。。。。。∥ರ ರ)╭
-arfeifei(老顽童★[O|||||||O]);
2016-1-17
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不大可能。。。除非遇到了变态女。。。女人到这把年龄，还没有taste 过婚姻家庭孩子，一般来说，都会有遗憾有渴望。你是她最后的机会。。。因此，她会宝贝你百分百。。。不像20岁的小丫头，不懂珍惜她顽叔叔。
-cute99(美女);
2016-1-17
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大多少？
-kavin09(kavin09);
2016-1-16
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显摆贴
-fengyunrenwu();
2016-1-16
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被包养的意思？
-spitfireto(很有意思);
2016-1-16
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好。以后看医生再也不用排队等了
-isup(isup);
2016-1-16
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要是妇产科医生呢？
-bobyface(蜰);
2016-1-16
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也好，以后看妇产科不用排队了。
-geekcode(文心雕码);
2016-1-16
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你的意思以后陪小三看妇产科不用排队了？
-bobyface(蜰骑将军);
2016-1-16
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那时候妇产科去看小三。
-spitfireto(很有意思);
2016-1-17
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孩子就在家给生出来了
-april(april);
2016-1-16
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我认识一个多伦多某大医院的大龄专科医生嫁给了一个注册会计师，都是华人。
-tums(Summer);
2016-1-16
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大龄女+医生，真是令国男纠结的元素啊。为什么最不想要的和最想要的偏要在这个女人身上如此组合呢？
-3662930(aveeno);
2016-1-16
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肥瘦搭配
-ddtt(0fen);
2016-1-16
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扔硬币，正面是大龄女，反面是医生。哪面朝上就说明是主导因素，那另一面就是次要因素。
-3662930(aveeno);
2016-1-16
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有些男人不介意自己的年龄，但很介意女方的年龄。国内时我给一男同事介绍一个朋友的同学，男女同岁。。可男同事说：“她是老姑娘呢。。。”后来娶了个小10岁的。。。等我回国探亲的时候，已经离了，直到现在40+了，还单身无孩。。。
-silentlady(沉默是金;宁静致远);
2016-1-16
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好像国男都是如此，只好姑且认为是真象吧。所以女孩子最重要的不是把自己培养成为赚钱能手，因为这样碰到渣男的概率太高了
-3662930(aveeno);
2016-1-16
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家庭医生可以，专科医生要考虑自己能不能撑起一个家，基本就是单亲父亲的节奏。就算雇保姆也很烦的。
-james4rn(james);
2016-1-16
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...凶大吗？
-cute99(简单);
2016-1-16
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这才是关键啊！
-april(april);
2016-1-16
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凶大是一方面，还有重要的是屯肥
-maplemaple000(maplemaple);
2016-1-16
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不好，医生是职业杀手。
-caa(1);
2016-1-16
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女人除了脾气要能和气，身材很重要，那是很关键的吸引力。你们谁都会为丰乳肥臀的女人多看几眼，对吧
-maplemaple000(maplemaple);
2016-1-16
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如果同时腰也很粗。。。满街黑大妈都是啦。
-minitoy(小小);
2016-1-16
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那就不叫丰乳肥臀了，没身材不用考虑
-maplemaple000(maplemaple);
2016-1-16
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上张PP我们检验1下呗。。。
-minitoy(小小);
2016-1-16
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真要爱上了，不会上网这么问，建议女医生别嫁）:
-hhzz(兔子);
2016-1-17
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这样问说明你对这位女医生还没有建立信任yet, 心里有很多疑点， 这比大龄与女医生这两条都重要得多，所以别娶了，再等。
-pingtingyang(yuren);
2016-1-17
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不好, 别娶 ~~~你都这么犹豫 ~~
-littlebird09(小小鸟);
2016-1-17
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女大三，抱金砖，好事！
-alaabracadabra(AlaAbracadabra);
2016-1-17
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年龄不合适的话，过几年等自己老了再娶，可解。
-geekcode(文心雕码);
2016-1-17
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