确实，我现在主要是在从自身找原因，看看是否还有我可以做的努力，因为改变自己远比改变别人容易，这个也只有为我儿子才会做的最后一试。并不是说我觉得自己错了。
By the way, 以前看过你的一些贴，都很欣赏，也赞同。谢谢你一针见血。:-).
-7miles(7miles);
2016-8-18(#10262028@0)
He is not intentionally but he indeed is controlling by giving directions. He doesn't materially and physically participate. Any thing not done in his mind will get criticized. He will 责备 regardless which way she goes.
-troyd(.);
2016-8-18(#10262147@0)
She is what she is today because she cares and tries to compromise. He simply takes advantage of her good faith intentionally or unintentionally.
-troyd(.);
2016-8-18(#10262154@0)+1
刚才仔细读了一下你转的帖子，发现我经常在做有预见性的事，虽然都是小事。而当我说出来的时候，他会说我什么事都会往负面想，根本不听我说，也不明白我只是Hope for the best,plan for the worst. 往往是事情经常如我所说。所以很多事我越来越不放心让他做决定。我也越过越累。
-7miles(7miles);
2016-8-18{94}(#10262615@0)